The best trend you can wear is your dignity, without dignity identity is erased. That is the sentence from my last post which I was thinking about what to write furthermore because so much is said in that one sentence.
The world we were raised to survive in no longer exists. We have more choices in everything, food, clothes, television, social networks, mobile devices and so on. Do you think people are more happy with all that?
Choices. God has given us a free will – CHOICE but what we choose will give us happiness and fulfillness or emptiness and miserableness.
I can barley put a mascara properly and it’s really amazing how much effort is done in all those pictures.
I see completely naked women who has taken photo of her breast and they call that art.
I see women dressed like they are trying to impress Richard Gere so they have that semi-look of Julia Roberts from “Pretty women”
I see 12 year old child dressed as that older one that she follows aka “Pretty women”.
I see #freethenipples hasthag more often and nude pictures then #childabuse #hunger. However their nipples are free and me trying to report that kind of pictures Instagram ignores.
I see mothers wearing less clothes then ever with her child taking photos of his mum for Instagram.
I see unhappy people.
I see lies.
I see them seeking for approval from others-men especially, well you don’t take vulgar/improperly pictures to show it to your besties, it looks like picture intended to be sent to your boyfriend, however-it ended up on Instagram asking for approval.
If she is happy why to seek approvals from other men?
Because she is not.
But the boyfriend who would love you can’t see YOU because you like trends more then yourself.
He can’t see your real beauty.
However, you don’t think that would be a beauty, your bare face, your covered body – that isn’t attractive, you don’t think that anyone would love that.
Actually it would.
Be you- tiful. You are enough. You are worthy.
You may not see it now, and maybe you will be angry reading all this thinking ‘what does she knows’ I am not like that, my boyfriend loves me – ask yourself a question do you truly love yourself?
If not, you are not able to receive love from your boyfriend in the right way. You will end up wounded, bleeding from relationship to relationship.
Did it convinced you?
Or you’re still trying to find the best lashes, clothes to be more attractive, false brows and you need a shot of fillers?
So the answer is no.
Your heart is so worth, precious and likes and compliments from other people will not fill that void in your heart.
Your heart needs more. You are created for more.
– You are created for purpose not performance.